We are not broken. We are whole.
They say we have deficits. We have all the skills everyone else has, we just use them differently.
Others say we are distracted. We are; distracted by all the possibilities and connections we see, the ones others don’t.
We have fire in our bellies and engines that drive us. Our spirit is interminable.
We are not defined by a list of symptoms. ADD is a part of who we are, but not the whole of who we are.
We do it differently. Different is not bad or wrong. If there was no different, there would be no Edison, Einstein or Branson.
We don’t want to be normal. We want to be ourselves.
We need help with certain things, like others need helping cutting hair or doing taxes. That makes us human.
We easily forget to do what is asked of us. We apologize for that. We also forget easily when you fall short too.
We’re sorry we don’t always remember birthday cards or thank-you notes. You are important to us, but calendars elude us. Please don’t forget that when we do honour you, it is usually in a more thoughtful and creative way than a card could ever conceive of.
We are lost in our thoughts for one reason: our thoughts are very interesting.
We lose things and forget things, get sidetracked or derailed for the same reason: our thoughts are very interesting.
Our thoughts can lead to wonderful things, when we channel them and use them properly. Our impulses and whims bear this same potential.
We interrupt because we are excited by what you are saying and we want you to know we connect with it. We want to find a connection with you.
Ask yourself, does anyone else in your life get even half as excited by your ideas as we do?
We act on the impulses most people secretly wish they could. Sometimes, it doesn’t work out well. That’s a part of life. We accept that not all things we do will work out well.
But when they do – they work out very, very well. It’s a risk we are willing to take.
We long for inclusion but we don’t want to fit in entirely. What we want is a life less ordinary, with a few less bumps and spills as well.
We realize that we’ve had a place in the evolution of society. We have always been here. We didn’t become disordered until society decided that uncommon was unhealthy.
We are visionaries, dreamers, hunters and warriors. We are explorers, creatives, go-getters and doers. We know that there are limited spaces in this world for these positions, and we are happy to fill them.
Without your organization, structure and planning we could not do our jobs.
Without our vision and inspiration, your jobs would be pointless.
We are all cogs that make the engine run.
We run on diesel in a world where petrol is the dominant fuel. If we force ourselves to take in gasoline, our engines run poorly and fail. When we fuel ourselves properly, our drive accelerates us.
We don’t mind that others like to do things linearly, methodically and didactically. So please don’t mind our tangents and trajectories. We get there in the end.
Whether you paint by numbers or colour outside the lines, in the end – the picture is still complete.
We don’t apologize for our ADD ways, anymore than a zebra apologizes to a horse for its stripes.
We don’t use ADD as an excuse, anymore than a bumble bee uses his weight as a reason not to fly.
We don’t do life the normal way.
We do it the ADD way.